From One Survivor to Another: There is this child part of me that is really hurting right now.
fromonesurvivortoanother:
MLP was a part of my healing. It was about going back to this child that never got to express themselves and letting her escape. It was about surviving how I wanted to. I wouldn’t have stuck with this mess for so long if it didn’t mean something to me.
Survivors don’t have a lot to begin with….
[Trigger Warning: Ableism, bullying, apologists, unsafe spaces]
Reblogging as a reminder to myself and others. MLP has been a big part of my healing as well. I was more than skeptical about MLP:FIM to begin with, with good reason. I ended up caving when a fellow survivor told me how healing and wonderful the show was for her. I was watching the first season a week later. Although some episodes rubbed me the wrong way, overall I could see how important it was for survivors and how it gave them safety.
I was waiting for season two to finish before watching it so I could have a special MLP day or something when I heard about the Ditzy Doo drama (see how much this pisses me off? I refuse to even call her the other name).
I know people haven’t listened and I doubt they will change their mind but I’m just going to say this in one last hope that somebody will get it. Being a safe space for survivors is NOT about you or what you think is survivors or people affected by the issue being too sensitive. Taking one survivor’s opinion over another’s just because it reinforces what you want to believe is wrong and selfish. If you’re another survivor insulting someone who takes offense to this, shame on you, you should fucking know better. As for the MLP:FIM community as a whole, congratulations on quickly giving yourself the reputation of some of the most dreaded fandoms on the internet. I hope you’re happy for being hypocrites and not getting the original intent of the show you worship blindly.
And if you still think this isn’t a fucking big deal? Fuck you. I finally watched that clip that caused this whole thing (which I’d been avoiding out of dread) and I immediately had flashbacks of people insulting and bullying my BABY BROTHER for his learning disabilities or them berating him on being useless when he was only trying to help. Because of that, he refused to talk to anyone or do anything for years. I watched that damn clip with tears streaming down my face, hating rainbow dash and the other ponies. That clip pretty much ruined MLP:FIM for me. And anyone who wants to tell me I’m wrong, overreacting, or too sensitive? FUCK YOU.
I had to get that out before I exploded…
thank you for this.